Piecing- going the distance, from a distance

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I am wondering if this is in some way his dealing with his emotions and guilt over what has happened? The breakup with OW. The nightmares the reflect me as a bad person. The late night calls. Any thoughts on this? And if I am on the right track, How do I help him?

Water,

The best thing you can do is listen. There is really nothing you can do to help him except for continue to work on yourself. His nightmares are just him having to deal with his emotions, feeling, and guilt. You have to let him work through his own healing process and coming to terms with the sitch.

IF you haven't already, in Talista's thread a recent reply with a long list of fears that a WAS is dealing with. It gave me a good glimps into what my W must be going through, it may give you some insight.

Keep positive, its a big thing that he call YOU in the middle of the night to talk about things. That indicates to me the close friendship you still have.