Hi All~ Thanks Cindy and S_G! Boy I can't tell you how much I appriciate your words of encouragement.
Cycler....WOW! How wonderful what you have said. I like your thoughts about you being in a new place, but at least its a nice beach! My youngest Son called me yesterday and asked what I was doing. "working" He then asked me what I would rather be doing. "Sitting on a beautiful beach listening to the waves"
Cycler, Pull up a beach towel and let's "chill" in the warm sun!
Well on Wednesday night I got a call from H at 3:00am. That's two nights in a row of middle of the night calls. We talked a little bit. I get the feeling that he feels like something is going on with me. Maybe like I am not always going to be there, or that I am seeing someone. I have not told him what I wrote in the letter that is somewhere in OW posession hopefully being forwarded. That has him wondering. Asked me again what it said.
I am wondering if this is in some way his dealing with his emotions and guilt over what has happened? The breakup with OW. The nightmares the reflect me as a bad person. The late night calls. Any thoughts on this? And if I am on the right track, How do I help him?
In our second late night conversation we talked about when I can come back up. He is EXTREMELY busy and will not be free for the next two weekends. Then the third weekend I am out of town. So I suggested that I look for flights for the last weekend in Feb. He said OK. I sent him an email about it yesterday, he read it, but has not responded.
I had told him that if there was anything I could do to help him, just let me know. And that I could also just be his cheerleader on the sidelines letting him get his work done quickly. He said that would be great.
I left him a VM this morning that said I missed our late night phone call! and that hopefully he got a good nights sleep and will be able his work done.
