Great job at "choosing" to greet him in a cheerful manner. In the DR book Michelle uses an example of how to "do" things we don't "feel" like doing. She states how her daughter wanted her to read a bedtime story, but Michelle was tired and didn't "feel" like it. Michelle wanted to be a good mom, so she read the bedtime story even though she didn't "feel" like it. This story I can completely relate to, I do things with my children that I don't "feel" like doing, and I don't keep score or hold grudges. Interesting how I didn't use this same mindset with my H. Just food for thought on a Thursday morning for you. Do something for YOU today:)
M 43 H 43 M 21 T 24 Bomb 9/2011 EA 9/2011 H moved out 10/2011 I filed for D out of anger 2/2012 H moved in with OW 3/2012 focused on blame and bitterness 9/2011-6/2012 found DB 7/2012
