Just looking for some advice. My ex has stated that she loves me and wants our family to be together again... But says that she "isn't there yet"... Which means that she can't date, be intimate or feel comfortable back home yet, or she will "run" again. She is encouraging me to date because she doesn't want me to be lonely?! & said that she has gone on a few dates, but felt uncomfortable with the whole thing. I know that I can't place a time on this possible reconciliation Unfortunately it could be never?
I would chew my right arm off to have our family whole again.
I can't understand her? Women are interested in me - if I date, does that spell the end to any chance of reconciling? Even with my 180s ... Which she has mentioned all of the positive changes - I am still lonely. I'm confused and it sure what all of this means or how to proceed? Advice, insight from anyone with similar experiences ... Really hoping for some advice. My C just tells me that I should do "whatever feels right"... All I feel is confused sad n lonely

(F.K.A. Broken422)

US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson