Sorry I haven't posted to you in a while, but I have been following the sit....
(((((Water)))))
I know this is a rotton roller coaster ride. It is so hard to stay cool and positive when new "evidence" is thrown in your face like that. Just reading your posts brought back very vivid memories of similar things that have happened to me...
YET....
Ellie and others are right! This is in the past, you H is making some effort to connect with you, he obviously is thinking of you A LOT! You know what they say! Focus on what you want to grow. This is so true with kids, and I guess it applies to MLC spouses as well. Your H is depressed, also and he needs you to be a dependable positive for him. Also, maybe this latest wrinkle will help you become more detatched. I don't know. Who am I to say?
The other day I thought of something...What has helped me tremendously is the three "P"s
Patience Prayer and Pampering!
maybe now is a good time to schedule yourself a massage, or a pedicure!
talk to you later, SG
Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker
