I'm trying to figure out my own emotions on this one myself. I think DaddyLongShanks is right about how this is. Every year the kids would go away with their grandparents and my WW and I would use the time to make up for the times we had to parent and work. But this year, she spent all her time with the OM.
I knew she would do this somewhat, so I planned on going out for some of the weekend. But she has only been home one night this week, not just the weekend. She not only took full advantage of this week, she made sure I knew about it. She left her car and the OM brought her home from her trip, knowing I would be home. Then she only stayed home Tuesday night, and left in the morning. She left a note saying she would not be home until Friday. She is basically living with the OM this week, and I'm dealing with being at home alone and trying to figure it all out. It's a breaking point for me.
I was also the unfortunate reciever of a WW that had gone from sneaking around to doing it to make sure it hurts me. I don't know how they get like that, but it's nothing to hold onto.
I don't like to relive mine, I just wish I listened much earlier and completely let go and got on with my life.
