Emotional affair

[timbits]

Hi Amelie. I feel like my sitch is very similar to yours. My H is having ANOTHER ea (just found out last night. Ugh) and it kills me. It would almost be easier if he just had sex with her, but the fact that he just wants to spend time with this OW is worse.

Hold on. It hurts, but you need to keep doing what you are doing. If he wants a D, he can get one himself. I wouldn't do anything to make that process easier for him. I would talk to a lawyer, though, so that you know your rights and can start to protect yourself.