I spoke to a C last night. Gave him the gist of what's going on and his last line was the most helpful.
Learn to not know, (not care)...ignore that H has this lakefront crap in his life. (I know I've read that here).
I am too smart and tech savvy and really need to channel that into looking for a job or hobby, instead of mapping his every move throughout the city.
I'm going to take a class maybe. Not to finish that psych degree...had enough of that for now. Maybe try a nutrition class.
I do like getting a male point of view, guys tend to be straight forward in their advice. H is like that and I need to really hear the good stuff he says....really listen instead of pondering the few negatives allll dddayy loonggg.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!