Quote: I asked if that was his "friends" address. He said yes, but that it was changing today. I told him that I had mailed him something and I sent it on Sat. He said that they were NO LONGER friends.
Don't go dark on him! He's telling you he's over the OW. You know he's seriously, clinically depressed, feels unworthy of you, and really really appreciates your friendship. Don't make it too hard for him to come home and don't punish him for something he did in the past - it has no bearing on your present R with him. Go back to cute emails or text messages, give him a sign the door is still open. Don't worry about the D, lots of people here have proven it's only a piece of paper.
