Yes I did. He responded, "I don't know, it just popped into my head."

Many concerns for what he might be thinking and feeling quickly ran through my own mind and I immediately attempted to calm and reassure him. I told him I would just leave and call the police and I would never let anyone keep us apart. There is some obvious underlying tension but I thing DS may have been testing my commitment to him and how far I would go to see him or would I just give up and let her have him.

It's really kinda wierd now. When we spoke earlier in the day she became curt but remained cordial (we were in her place of business) and she said we would have to straighten this out today when she got off work. But when she did get off and I took DS to her for concert (DD stayed at work with her), she was all nice, didn't mention it and said, "I love you." Wazzup with that?!? Could it be......
A) Bipolar disorder
B) Someone at work pointed out how good she's got it
C) Multiple Personality Disorder
D) Im hallucinating
E) All of the above


I'm not sure if she's trying different angles (sweetness/fury) looking for the one that might cause me to cave in to her or if there's something else going on in her head. This thing has already run the gambit from her sternly threatening legal action, to a look of resignation when I pointed out the kids are almost old enough to decide for themselves in our state to DS broachin the possibility of gun violence to "I love you."

Fiancé has altered her assessment of the sitch from her original belief of jealousy on Xs part (oh the first time I saw X after engagement she requested to see a pic of the engagement ring) to X resisting losing her position of a hyper cake eater. Fiancé sees it line this: X gets to sleep and live with OMH but kept me as father of her children/childcare provider on demand. Example (and irony): In the midst of wanting kids to live with her she and OMH are going out of the country next week (her week to have kids). She informed me today she will have a housesitter and the kids can stay with sitter or I can take them. I have always taken my kids when such occasions arise as I (and kids) would rather we be together than them with a sitter.

I really need to focus on "WHAT" and stop wasting time trying to figure out "WHY?"

"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.