Hopeful- Venting here is much better than venting on your H, good job. Keep posting. I find that knowing I can vent here keeps me a little more focused on maintaining my emotions each day. Keep reading DR, and define your goals. Solutions and actions is where you want your mind. Like the DR book says, look back to when things were good in your M, what was different? What were you doing differently?


M 43 H 43
M 21
T 24
Bomb 9/2011
EA 9/2011
H moved out 10/2011
I filed for D out of anger 2/2012
H moved in with OW 3/2012
focused on blame and bitterness 9/2011-6/2012
found DB 7/2012