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You handled that interaction marvelously!

Info received ... WHATEVER ... the right attitude to take.
Let it roll off your back and let it go. It residual from a past action and all that has changed.

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KAW- was your W a MLC'er? If so, where was she when you apologized? What stage?

Was? ... Still!!!

My apology occured in a heart-to-heart talk we had about a month after she dropped the bomb of a PA & wanting a D. Suprisingly, this was before I learned about Michelle's books. But it was a talk that had a lasting impact on CAW and helped her assess that the changes I took on weren't only to lure her back into a M she no longer wanted, but genuine strides I was doing to become a better person. Karen is right ... words alone won't convince a WAS, but words to back up the actions help the WAS understand the true meaning behind the changes.

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But then its hard to make work, home, kids, animals sound interesting again....

So what would you like to do that would get you excited enough to want to share with him the next time he calls? Plan to take time to do it. Make a pact that you won't try to contact him first until you have something interesting to share with him? This should help with when you start to question if you should call him.

'til later,
KAW