Any chance to make it work? I need advice

[reachingHigher]

Just really appreciated your post to me tonight, sbr. I can relate to the thing about being best friends. H & I met while working together in what many would consider a stressful occupation. I thrilled to work with him and take all of our breaks together for years.

And last fall when we were trying to go through a marriage-help book but his heart wasn't in it, all he would do is cry -- he told me the first few years we were together he felt it was the two of us against the world. And we lost that. Oh, to gain that back!!!!