I agree in that assessment of X in her 20's would absolutely hate the X she is now. I think she does actually, but that's another story for another time...
Blame? Not sure I'm with you on that one. I did what I did with the information and understanding I had.
When it is all said and done, I walked away with me. With my integrity. With my sanity. Most of my sanity at any rate.
To really love somebody, we have to let them make their choices, their way. We don't have to like it, but we do need to let them even if it absolutely the opposite of what they used to be and say they believed. It's part of it in my mind.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
