RT, it's in the quiet times that the ghosts appear. It's also when we really get to deal with things (not always pleasant, but always worth it.)
As for the stuff with your son - that stuff happens even if your W and you were together. I think you know that. Let it go.
OM is trying to network with you? WTF is that about, right? The thing is, you need to do what you need to do. You are doing that and I appluad that. FWIW, mine (not her current OM) tried the same. I didn't realize what he was at the time, else I would have done the same. Looking back, I won't waste my time with people that don't share my integrity nor my values. OM is high on that list. That's not the old me, but I've learned...
Keep positive and as you feel the feelings, let them be felt and then put them away.
My $0.04 worth,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
