New to DB

[hopefulinga]

After my venting post, I tried to catch my breath and get a PMA. I also started to ponder what happened to the half laid back half strung out person that I used to be. How did my life get so stressful and what can I do to change it?

I know that I have not validated H, shown him repect, etc. So, how do I do all of that and DB? I don't want to be overbearing.