Ok, need to vent. Didn't mention that last week H mentioned that he was messaging a female that we both know while I was sitting there. He was more friendly with her than I was. I think this may have been out of the blue but not sure. I was angry but didn't say anything. He told me how he always liked her laid back personality. I felt like that was a dig at me because I have been fairly high strung over the past few years. I was not that way when we met and I know it is a problem.
He was feeling bad for her because she is 7 mos pregnant and they guy left her. He acted like she had no control over the situation.
I found out that last night while I was teaching, he had dinner with her with our daughter so that he could help her program her iPhone. I am livid and am trying to do the best I can to control myself and not say anything when he comes home. When the D came up in July, he assured me that there was no one else, which I believe.
He's obviously had conversations with this woman since last week. I am going away with D over the weekend and am trying to not let my mind wander and cause a problem that may not exist. I would hope like H@ll he would not get into a relationship with someone pregnant, period, but especially while we are still married. I know that he feels sorry for people and tries to cater to them, which makes me mad when it is a female. So I am trying to believe that is the case here.
In just about every relationship he's been in, to my knowledge, he has been quick to find someone else or has them while the current one is breaking off. That gives me some concern. I know that I cannot change his behavior.
I am not good at the patience part quite yet. Any tips or ideas on how to not blow my stack would be appreciated!
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
