Yes it does matter because you have to look at the larger picture. The D is just a piece of paper. It's not an automatic switch that turns on or off people's emotions. Stay the course as if the threat of D wasn't there.
What I meant is that it doesn't matter whether I tell her that I love her and talk to her about what I have been talking to the therapist about because her ultimatum and the fact that, according to my kids, she has moved from just talking to people on dating sites to meeting them in person gives me a pretty good idea where she is emotionally. It tells me that she is still not open to any kind of reconciliation. As far as the waiver goes, A few weeks ago I would have told her that she would have to go to court and get the judgement, so agreeing to sign the waiver I have shown a 180 and reacted in a way which is the opposite of what she expects.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012
