H called me and dropped the Bomb on me he says its over and that he doesn't want to see me suffer and that he mesed up everything. He wants me to give him the divorce, I said to him that when I said that I wanted a divorce I was angry and he said "well if you don't file it I will" I thought about it and this is not going to work out. I love our son but our marriage is over. "I told him to have a nice day and I hung up the phone.ever since that phone call I feel sick to my stomach.