I have decided to focus on my goals more than anything else. So far I am starting small but as time goes on I am sure I can tackle bigger projects. Right now I am focusing on exercise, keeping a cleaner house, not going out on weekends to avoid temptation to drink, spend more quality time with my kids, work. GAL has never been a big problem for me.
One thing that helps me is to wake up and decide what I would like to acomplish for the day. I tell myself in the morning what I will get done and then remind myself throughout the day. By the end of the day no more how tired I am, I have convinced myself the thing I chose have to get done. Works for me so far.
Me:27 W:30 S1:3y/o S2:8m/o T:5 M:3 Bomb:5/16/12 W moved out:5/16/12