Welcome, I am new here as well. I have found extra oxygen here to help me breath. You will too. Take a look at the 37 rules and read them everyday. I like to eavesdrop:) on the bootcamp posts between vets and newbies, it is a great way to get guidance on many different levels. It is terribly hard to share such an emotional and painful story, keep sharing and be open for input. That is what you are here for. You have a lot of stuff going on at once, just from reading your post you are working on multiple areas and trying to read results along with pointing things out to your H. What are your goals? What are YOUR actions that will work toward your goals? Patience, patience, patience...keep posting daily.
M 43 H 43 M 21 T 24 Bomb 9/2011 EA 9/2011 H moved out 10/2011 I filed for D out of anger 2/2012 H moved in with OW 3/2012 focused on blame and bitterness 9/2011-6/2012 found DB 7/2012
