Amelie,

This is an awful way to spend an anniversary. I'm very sorry for you. Do you have plans for what you will do?

Its very easy to focus on all the actions/behaviors your spouse is doing that is harming your marriage. But in the end, that focus is not productive for you or your marriage.

So what parts of the DR book are hitting home for you? How are you doing with processing all of this right now?


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms