New to separation. Am I doing the right things?

[MrBond]

"On another thread you mentioned that your name has something to do with James Bond, it’s been a while, could you help clarify?"

Sure. I'm a firm believer that your name or alias here should be a reflection of the person you want to become. When I started DBing, I was the same as everyone else. Until I decided to stop letting fear and her threats run my life.

I thought long and hard to think of a person or character that does the right thing, is fearless and doesn't give a damn about what others think about his motivations. Daniel Craig's version of James Bond immediately came to mind. It also helps that he doesn't let the emotions of women affect his end goal. He knows his objective and doesn't let anyone or anything stop him from achieving it.

Sometimes when I felt really bad in my sitch or any other times when I questioned my self worth, I actually would play the James Bond theme in my head and that gave me focus. There was an immediate change in my interactions with others right after.