Sorry guys, i missed these posts, I was still on page 2 (brain is scrambled..too much hanging out with an Alien!)
I like the idea of making changes too. Especially trying new clothes that I would not usually wear. (Saw that on your thread RH). I'm going to put some thought into what I can do as well to spice things up around here. Too much depression and anxiety going on.
TVS...H is down to the same weight he was when he was 25 (he is now 54)..yes he looks good, but I never really thought he looked too bad with some weight on either. He starting smoking 10 months ago after giving it up 20 years ago. How MLC is that??? What an idiot! The whole world is trying to give up and H takes it up!!!!
Yes H is much better when he is not at work. He obsesses about it. I really would love it if he could work normal hours. I've had a very lonely marriage, but stuck with it out of love and in the hope that we could finally spend time together travelling etc, now that the family is older. Funny, I did tell H when he was still talking D a while back, that I didn't see myself being alone for the rest of my life. As I had spent most of my marriage by myself, I would be actively seeking out another partner if we divorced. He had tears in his eyes.
