Hi I saw that you did not get a response. I find that this is a difficult topic for me, but I will offer some advice.


What has your husband offered to you for piercing and for recovery?

Is it lacking?

Can the both of you communicate ?

Has he worked to heal you ?

Perhaps your thoughts are around the fact that you believe he lied to you about the EA/PA.

Can you over come this or is this an issue that you feel needs to be addressed between you two?

I am thinking it is an issue.... so does your husband know this?

If it turns out to be a PA.... Does this change anything ?

If it does not what do you think is holding back your H from talking ?

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