Any chance to make it work? I need advice

[sweetbabyred]

I just found out that H spent several hours in the hospital after passing out at the storage unit. So he's in the hospital, SS is with his new roommate, and I have no idea any of this is going on because H didn't want me to worry! He also said that he didn't want me to be right because I'd told him to drink water, eat food, and get sleep because I was worried something could happen.

Somehow his best friend found out and made it to the hospital before he was released. I'm really just frustrated that instead of telling me so that I can at least pick up my SS and take him somewhere he's a little familiar with, he is with someone he barely knows. And I'm sure he was a little freaked out because he was with H when he passed out.

H waited until three hours after he was even released to tell me, so I get all the news at 11pm. H is so frustrating at times, but I know that I can't be married to a man who won't even tell me when he's taken to the hospital in an ambulance. And yet he says he wants us to still be best friends after all this is done.

I am so annoyed right now. It would be one thing if we were divorced, or maybe if he'd actually filed the papers, but he's done no such thing. He asked me for a hug this am because he was having such a hard time with the move and sale of the house, but then tries to hide something as big as this?