Correct me if I'm wrong, but she has told you how she feels. She wants a S.... AND, you've told her that you don't. Sounds like you guys have told each other how each of you feels.
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
She said she's okay not ever getting a divorce.
TO ME-that screams of a woman wanting to know if she can trust your changes.
Her fear is you'll go back to the way things were (and things weren't too good for her or your d w/your past behaviors. Don't gloss over that stuff b/c it's KEY).
But if she could trust that the changes she sees in you-- are going to continue, and that you could grow together and as one, then wow...what a life you could live, together...
Actually, please read post #2266866 above . My sitch has just changed dramatically, interestingly enough, just as I was starting to regain confidence and see more clearly what i had to do. Your comments are welcomed.
Thanks
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
