ahhh...the control issue...they cannot control themselves, their thoughts, etc, so they try to control everything external to them...we LBS are target #1, if fail there, on to everything else...get used to it, even when they seem to be coming out of it, the control issues are still very strong, as my W shows me almost daily.
You are handling it well, keep strong!
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm