Water:
I like how you managed OW issue, but for me there is no chance... i always had asked "NO more about OW at all"... even as a friend... i dont want to alarm you, just to ask you being open eyes... while my h continue maintaining contact with OW, he had not get out of the crisis... right now, is the moment where there arent strange calls at night, no hiding phone from me, he leaves without paranoic behavior his cell phone while he tkes a shower, etc, now there is really nothing to hide... again, each case is differnt and each of us knows his man...!!...
Andrea