Goin' off the rails on a crazy train...

[wishing, hoping]

Spoke too soon. H blew up my phone and I made the mistake of calling him back. He basically accused me of spending all the money and running the back account into the red. Then he went off on how do I dare set up an appointment with a counselor without consulting him and how dare I instill my wishes upon S without thinking of his best interests. H told menus discussed counseling with S long ago and S didn't want to go to counseling. I talked to S afterward and this is a lie. S never told H that.

And on to the coach. Again, how dare I speak for H and S almost got cut from the team because of this fiasco (that's H's story) and that the coach is FURIOUS with ME for not talking to H about his philosophy. I told H that I have spoken extensively to the coach and that was not true. H says "should I have you listen to the angry voicemail coach left me?" I said "sure, why not?"

I told H he was not going to twist things around and make me the bad guy anymore. I wasnt going to allow that to happen. He can twist things anyway he sees fit but I will not let it bother me anymore. That shut him up. He asked to have S call him when he got back from walking the dog.

So S calls and H talks to D and then wants to talk to me again!!!! Hasn't this been enough for one night? So I get on the phone and he is nice as pie!!! Telling me what a great swimmer D is and how we need to keep her in swimming lessons. Then he starts another argument about how dare I spend $25 per month on the dog's heartworm and flea and tick meds. That is just ridiculous! Oy veh!!! I said call the vet and find out what the options are. To me the dog's health is well worth $25 per month. But anything for an argument I guess.

My head is spinning. I think I need a drink.