I am sorry to hear of your grandma's passing. Take care of yourself.
This time will be between you and your family. What your W does or does not do is for her own reasons. Allow her that and do not judge her or have any expectations on what she does around this.
Thanks for your condolences.
I don't want to judge her at all. I am not mad, or bitter... I am really just sad and hurt.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Your W needs space. You absolutely need to stop clinging and stop talking about your R with her. You will likely push her away and you might drive a wedge further between the two of you, making a positive outcome that much more difficult.
You are absolutely right. I have been a fool in this regard. Her mom and dad tell me the same thing. This is going to be my focus from here on out.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
In the mean time, what other things did your W complain about, regarding you, other than not spending time with her?
I didn't help out as much as I should have around the house. I always felt like she was nagging, or critical of me. So I withdrew. Pretty much the classic case that Michele talks about in DB and DR.
