I, for one have read a lot of your thoughts and found them very eye opening. At this point, my W just asked for Divorce (out of the blue) as well as admitted to seeing OM and I find myself at a loss. I would appreciate your input if you have time to go through my sitch.
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then