Yesterday I met with my therapist and he says that I need to start telling W that I love her again. and try to tell her that all I want is to work things out so that we can be a family again. I am not sure that this is the right time to do that since she continues to seem to be closed off to me. However, he has had some conversations with her on the phone so he may know more about her mental state than I do. Should I continue to go dark as much as possible or should I take my therapist's advice and make a tentative effort to reach out to W?
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012