taken from my post in this thread: He won't! We (my 3 adult boys and I) offered to handle everything in order for him to relax and get help at an away private facility.
He won't see a doctor. He insists he needs to be angry to push through life. Then he crashes and is depressed.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!