another add on to my earlier post, after reading so many posts on this board, I get confused with some posts stating that people should face reality and that most of these situations end in D, and some posts about how people hang on too long. I am here because the DB focus validated my hope and is guiding me to take responsibility for my own actions. It is called Divorce Busting for a reason, right? I understand there are no guarantees, but these books showed me that I can give myself the chance at fixing my marriage along with myself. I suppose I am struggling with those comments, I am second guessing myself, and sometimes reading them thinking "crap, am I sticking my head in the sand, do I need to face the reality that H left".
M 43 H 43 M 21 T 24 Bomb 9/2011 EA 9/2011 H moved out 10/2011 I filed for D out of anger 2/2012 H moved in with OW 3/2012 focused on blame and bitterness 9/2011-6/2012 found DB 7/2012
