I would just like to be able to not worry about it anymore. I wish that I truly had the same trust in W that I had before. I don't. I do trust her... just not to the extent that I did before. I feel that I am always on the lookout. I don't like that feeling at all.
Standard crappy answer....time. It comes with time. It does fade, does it go away completely?
[censored] man...are you sure you want it too? : ) But yeah...I think it does.
Originally Posted By: Denver
I haven't had that discussion explicitly... but I'm pretty sure that she knows.
Oh good. That should go well then. No room for miscommunication or misunderstanding there at all...since you can read her mind about that topic. ; )
LOL... yeah, I know... TIME. I suppose that I don't want it to go away to the extent that it appears as though I don't care. THAT is how it was before. I don't want that. But I do want to be able to trust my W to have male friends (whom I am also friends with), be able to go to her out of town gigs, etc., without feeling paranoid about it.
I suppose that you are right, I probably should have that convo with her.
How exactly did you go about telling your W that you would pretty much be snooping on her??
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
