My wife surprised me today with "I will never treat you like a stranger"
I think this was in response to me telling her yesterday as sincere as I could "that whatever happens my main goal is that we are happy people"
Before I would have done my typical 20 questions of HOW and WHY and pry pry pry until she cant take it anymore.. I don't cry in front of her, I support her move to go back to college, I don't push for kisses and hugs, I only say I love you in opportune moments not 50 times a day like a month ago. I surround myself with my workouts, soccer and trying to find a job away from the shop. I will be the strong independent successful man she fell in love with 5 years ago. One resounding thing in every success story has been PATIENCE. I am good with patience and I will become better than ever.