It is just over a year since I found a letter written by my husband to a w he used to work with on our laptop. It was written as though they'd been having a pa but even after all this time he insists it was only talking and doesn't even see it as an ea. I've tried counselling but had to stop after 4 months as I could no longer afford it. I mostly feel OK day to day but the trouble is I just can't bare the thought of being intimate with h - even kissing! I'm really wondering if this is normal this long after discovering it all or if it is a sign that we should go our separate ways after all. I'd love to hear from someone who has been through a similar situation and stayed together!
