Piecing- going the distance, from a distance

[kml]

I vote to send it.

Ellie

[Livnlearn]

Here's a suggestion-

Tell your H (by the by, in a chatty sort of way by IM or whatever) that you had a couple of ideas about how to use your ticket - plan A involves coming up to see him, and plan B is any other plan you fancy. Ask him for his usggestion about which plan you should go for. That way, if he says plan B, you will already have your alternative worked out and it will seem as if you are still going to enjoy yourself, somewhere! (Less loss of face, for you, seems less pursuing on your part). He could of course suggest plan A!!!

Livnlearn

[holdingon]

I went to my Hs apt in October... yes, the evening was nice, the following week was nice, BUT IMHO, I pushed him back in his tunnel... Did I say October? and now it is January? I don't know, Water, although I know it sounds "safe" and therefore "wimpy" if you are vacillating, I'd give myself some time until it absolutely, positively feels RIGHT.

[water_runs_dry]

Hello All~

I went with plan B.

Here are our text pages back and forth.

W: Familiar, funny, happy friend has ticket, will travel. Understands if you have to work and have lots going on.

H: Your too cool! I'm seeing houses tomorrow, playing in a poker game (team building), Sunday church/work

W: Good for you, sounds like fun! say the word if you want to hang out. anytime.

H: Today?

W: Anytime!

That is where it is now. I think it is a good thing. I'm not feeling like he is feeling pressured, but liked the "reach out and touch someone".

I'm just being his friend.

HE SAID I WAS TOO COOL!



Blessings to all!
Water

[kml]

Ellie

Seems like maybe funny light text messages could be a useful thing to continue doing in the future?

[water_runs_dry]

I'll be on the first flight out in the morning to Seattle!



Blessings
Water

[Livnlearn]

Wow - that's great news, I'm so happy for you!!

Livnlearn

[KutieKat]

WOO HOO

here's to you having a SPLENDED time!!!

[kml]

Awesome!

Ellie

[alaskangal]

Hope you get to make WOOOHOOO in the Seattle rain....be sleepless in Seattle...and hope to hear your trip to Seattle slew the divorce demon...LOLOLOLOLOL...am thrilled for you...