Goin' off the rails on a crazy train...

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks Snod. I am trying. Just acting "as if". It does get easier but I try not to poke the bear.

We still have the issue of S's counselor ahead of us. S told H he wanted to go and that I wasn't "forcing" him. H has not brought it up to me probably because he knows he does not have a leg to stand on. I am waiting to hear from my L if there is a legal issue involved but I am guessing not. I will just continue to let H make a fool of himself.

My new manta is "time is on my side". Yes it is!