Went school shopping with D last night. On the way D told me she didn't want me to get her a backpack. She said my BIL's wife said she was going to get her one and decorate it with her(they just moved into town). This upset me because this is something that me & W had worked out and D was now sad. BIL's wife didn't check with anyone. They have their own kids. This is something that is important to me and now this person is just kind of taking it upon herself to do what they want. I appreciate that they are trying to be kind to D but they should check first. This person has always done this sort of thing. Making promises to D without checking with my W & I first and then not going through with them. And now the situation is more delicate.
