Hi everyone Im new here and im in need of advice and support.My world just fell apart.A little history.My husband and I have been married for 11 years and have a beautiful 5 year old daughter.We had been living the normal life(or so i thought) working,vacations,just everyday life.We were in Miami in april and talked about our future and getting a new car.In Feb of this year a single woman and her son moved in next door.So u know what im getting at.Allof a sudden my 51 year old husband was best friends with her 19 year old son.Putting him before our daughter constantly.At first i thought was was gay.Not long after he started telling me he was unhappy and our relationship needed work...what??? Where ddid that come from.He said i was a great mom but he felt like i was maried to my daughter and not him.He needed more intamacy from me.So i tried to touch him more,make eye contact put little notes in his lunch box but nothing i did seemed to get him any closer to me.So....A few days later i overheard him on the phone saying he met someone and was deeply in love.It was of course the 19 years old mom. I called him and flipped! Told him to get his stuff and get out.After several days of fighting he said this was all too much for our daughter and said he would not talk to her anymore.He then locked up his phone and computer and started drinking and even stayed out all night.I did every wrong according to this site.I cried and begged and pleaded.Last night after a heated arguement it was the first time we actually talked.She was feeding his ego telling him how wonderful he is and i was the nagging wife.What i fooool? Did she see me outside cutting grass afyer working all day?Did she know i had my daughter90 percent of the time while she was out meeting him at the park?He rarely took our daughter to the park!!!I do all the cleaning,laundry and i work.How dare her?? i am so angry and hurt! My daughter deserves a family unit and i am not blind to the fact that we must have had problems for him to go to her in the first place but he admitted last night he has still spoken to her infrequently since this all happened.DO we have a chance at all???Thank you all so much.I have been praying morning noon and night!
