So here's an update: There's been nothing going on since last week's communications (Detailed above). I took my IC's advice and sent her a quick text this morning, (as she is going to have a VERY rough day today... can't go into details, but suffice to say today is going to be brutal for her) just to let her know that I'm sure she'll be strong today, as she always is, and that I'm never more than a phone call away. I haven't heard a word back from her on that.
In our last communication, and a few times before that, she mentioned that it upset her that over the last 3-4 months, since she moved away, that SHE is the one that always has to initiate the conversations. I can't tell if that's her reaching out and asking me to be a little more involved or if it means my detachment/LRT is "working"...
I'd love to hear from you you guys, as I need advice.
