Point taken, and yes, hurt, angry and frustrated would be accurate. I let my emotions get the better of me yesterday in a couple of ways, but I don't agree I used my S as a pawn. Could I have made a better choice, yeah, sure.
Fill me in a little.....
Was the party pre-planned before all of the other stuff happened ?
Maybe I am assuming, and maybe I missed it, but according to .007's reply to you, I think it was....
IF...it was....
Then yes, you used your son as a pawn...
You knew the thing that would hurt your wife the most, and you used it against her...
So fill me in on the Cliff Notes of where you are now....
How did your actions over the past few days relate to your goals ?
How could you have done better ??
Did you show the world what you wanted to show it ???
BD...I'm not too much on the daily living advice as much as I am a philisophical person...
What you do daily...YOU have to live with, so I will leave you to make those choices.