Let's face it, it's obvious from your posts that you're still p.o.'d at your W. I get it. But when it comes to your son, be the bigger and better man.
Point taken, and yes, hurt, angry and frustrated would be accurate. I let my emotions get the better of me yesterday in a couple of ways, but I don't agree I used my S as a pawn. Could I have made a better choice, yeah, sure.
I will think on it some though, because as much as I want to argue the point, I think I owe it to myself to do some soul searching on it and be completely honest with myself. Boundaries with the kids are going to be a huge issue with us and this whole deal is an emotional roller coaster, for both of us, so better to think thru it all now before more decisions are made.
