MLC with depression....double the fun!

[albamarie]

H depression is bad. He's sleeping while he's suppose to be at work.

Our S21 said to him that he didn't want to be on the same gig at work with him. He was my H best pal from the day he was born. Now H treats him as if invisible.

H turns to me saying if I had only let him go, he wouldn't be here to disappoint our S. I slipped and said "if you would come back to your family S wouldn't be upset". He said he can't flip his mind back.

We can talk without fighting, were back to the respectful aspect of our relationship. H says he hates giving me his anger that's why he started hanging out with crap.

It kills me when he says he doesn't want to get better or flip back. I know it's the MLC, but it's like he's in a catch 22.

Nobody wants to be miserable. He can't get away from the idea that he's worthless. He speaks wonderfully about me and the kids to everyone.

I can GAL all I want. Heck, he want's me to buy a car cause mine is getting to dirty from him. Not sure how that's going to help the root of the problem though. It's good for me though!

I know I can't help him, he has to want it. But at this rate he's going to have to crash and burn, or be forced by police in order to have a qualified someone enforce 24hr observation .

MLC is kicking his butt.