I get it that you're trying to establish boundaries. But using your son as a pawn (and it's obvious that's what you're doing) isn't the way to do it.
She's not cake eating in that respect. She wanted to see her/your son. There will be times when it will be her time with your son and you will want to be with him also. You've got to learn to compromise.
"And you say say my son deserves "x." The way you say it, "x" is whatever my wife says."
Uh no that's not what I said. 'x' does not mean "whatever your wife says", you're interpreting it based off of your personal hurt feelings. This is in regards to this specific event.
Let's face it, it's obvious from your posts that you're still p.o.'d at your W. I get it. But when it comes to your son, be the bigger and better man.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.