thanks 25...sadly it was my 4th dui..pretty ashamed of that. you are right though. thats what it took to get my head out of my you know what. i am glad it happened. yes the consequences arent fun, yet i need them to help me focus. i am going to be who i want to be.
i have been through hell and back. i am greatful for the journey. i have begun to find the peace i have been searching for for so long. i found out how strong i can be too. that is a blessing. today is my anniversary. W contacted me about dumb stuff. i kept it nice and didnt bring it up. it doesnt matter anymore.
you are very right.. scorecards have no place in marriage. i choose to remember the good times, which there were plenty. one day i hope we can be friends again so we can be successful co parents.
i have really changed my outlook on life. i look for positives in everything now. i seem to find them too..lol
here is to quotes i really like..
"you need to stand in the rain in order to see the rainbow"
"when life gives you lemons, you paint that sh1t gold"
