Originally Posted By: Amelie7
he asked her again about my whereabouts and at what time I was gonna be back home. You see in 3 days we were supposed to celebrate our wedding anniversary and I think he probably remembered it.


There, I stroked out your mind reading about what he might be thinking about.

We talk often about not mind reading our spouses. We may or may not be right. The point is, what ever they might be doing away from us or thinking has no bearing on our DB efforts.

All you know is your H is asking about you. That is all. Just note that he could be thinking BAD things, just as easily.

SA gave you sage advice above and also, you indicated you would pick up DR and read it. Please do and also consider what you can do as 180s (changing negative behaviours in yourself to positive ones) as well as GAL (getting a life: meaning doing things that helps take your mind of the sitch).