She asked if I had anything I wanted to say but I said no.
Good that you said nothing to help prevent a possible argument.
What I did not say above though, is...
There would BE no argument... because you would say something and then if she got angry, YOU would LISTEN and VALIDATE.
If she does ever open up that door again with asking if you have anything to say, you can simply let her know that you have thinking about how things were in the past and how you are now working on becoming a better man and father as that is what you want.
